Monthly Archives: January 2012

Ten Guilty Pleasures……

I was sitting here thinking about the rest of my week and started thinking about a Passion Party that I have planned on Friday. I wanted to write something on my blog pertaining to my OTHER job lol….

I think that we all have desires that we don’t get fulfill or we overlook because of certain reasons and women in particular have to ignore our desires and pleasures the most. I believe that we all need to come up with a list of our Ten Pleasures or Desires….whether they are guilty or not. Put it in a book or place it on a wall that you always look at. Commit to completely one pleasure or desire a month.

Here is my list of my Ten Guilty Pleasures: (Are you ready? lol)

10.) I love marshmallows (don’t tell anyone)!! I can swallow a whole bag in minutes lol

9.) There is something about a man that smells good. OMG…..My sense of smell is a lil ridiculous and always has been so smelling good is very important!

8.) I think that I subconsciously like wearing shirts where my girls are visible. lol

7.) I love to be bitten. I don’t want you to take some skin with you when you leave but at least make me feel it. lol

6.) I love to eat but the problem is…..I’m a really picky eater!! I don’t eat just anything but what I do it, will and can be gone in seconds!

5.) Smoking a cigarette from time to time has become just a guilty pleasure.    

4.) I drink at least one energy drink a day! I don’t even think that they work anymore lol

3.) I love watching SpongeBob and Patrick gets on my very last nerve in just about every episode lol

2.) I love pissing some people off when I make posts on Facebook lol

1.) I love being in love……

What is your Top Ten Guilty Pleasures?

~Lohnnie Cakes



Valentine’s Day Love!!

What better way to show someone that you love them than to go above and beyond the normal one day of Valentine’s Day? The 14 Days of Valentine would be a perfect way to do just that!

What type of gifts do you give? Well, you definitely want to give put some thought into it and chose things that would be sentimental to your mate. Cards, flowers, a weekend trip, a couples massage, anything you can do to show your love.


I found a website ( that has a calendar with everyday planned out for their loved one. It doesn’t have to be expensive but the point of your 14 day plight of love is to show your mate that you are in love. Sometimes the simplest things are the best ideas to show you care.

Day One is tomorrow….what will you do for the love of your life?

Blogging for money

Last night, before I went to bed, I read a blog about blogging for money and then I searched through the topics about the subject. There was a lot of interesting information and blogs about blogging for money and it made me a lil interested.

I might do a little more research and then consider doing it or working towards it. What do you think?


“Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through.  Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it.  This is a kind of death.”

 ~Anaïs Nin


During my search for realization and my move through the process of life, its kind of bought me to this point where I’m questioning everything. Questioning every choice that I’m about to make. Questioning whether I should take some time to work everything out by myself. Questioning what step of the process of life that I’m on and trying to get to. 

I have gotten to the point where I have admitted to myself that I have no short term goals….and that can be dangerous. I’m a big kid and I can’t even deny it. I don’t talk or share myself with many people. Maybe I should find a mentor…..


I have spent the better part of the last seven years doing things that I didn’t need to do and going out of my way to help others. I would help my family but the people that I would help would be people that I thought were friends. When there were little arguments, there would be things said about me out of anger but I was always still there to help and talk to when no one else was there.

I have come to the realization that I can’t be nice to everyone and although my Mom has constantly told me over and over again “You can’t save everyone” ….I have tried anyway. Not because it was something that I had to do… was in my heart to do and regardless of what I do, I have found it hard to get away from that. I try being mean and talk trash but I ALWAYS come back to this same place.

Things will be different. Things will change. And I’m going to get out of this habit of letting people walk all over me and still feel like I owe them something.


-Lohnnie Cakes

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