A poem by Me…for whomever…
A poem by Me…for whomever…
There have been times that I have wanted to apologize to you all for some of the females that are running around calling themselves women. These females lie to get what they want, tricking men into believing something that’s not true, giving them false hope and allowing so-called men to put their hands on them. Really….there is no excuse for any of the underhanded things that some females do to get what they want. But really that is where my sympathetic ear stops.
I have many male friends and some of them have children. I love my friends like they are my brothers and I try to make sure that I give them advice when they come to me with complaints about their baby mommas. Let me start by defining “baby momma” for those that may be a little confused. A “baby momma” is a woman that you have a child with and she goes out of her way to drive you crazy. A “baby momma” should never be confused with “the mother of my child” or “my child’s mother”. A “baby momma” is not a term of endearment. Check out the “politically correct” definition of “baby momma” at Urban Dictionary.
Men need to come up with better criteria for what they look for in a woman. Stop believing that any sexual encounter won’t or can’t become more than that. Whatever a woman really wants, please believe she can get it. It may take time but if she is persistent and has unwavering faith, she will have you and/or your child. And realistically, if she has your child…..she has YOU.
To be continued…….
Hello everyone!! I hope that everyone woke up this morning in their right mind and truly feel blessed today. Today I went searching for my “Quote of the morning”and wasn’t sure what I was going to find but I think this quote is perfect for how I’m feeling at this time in my life. I feel blessed to be able to share it with you in hopes that you share it and feel blessed as well.
So many times in life we depend on others to make us happy or we wait on the happiness of others to make us happy. This is not right! We hold on to past hurts and trauma. We cling to it like it keeps us alive. This is not right!
When you let others produce and maintain your happiness, you are setting yourself up. When you hold onto what someone has done to you in your past, you are setting yourself up. When you can not forgive, you are simply setting yourself up.
Quote of the Morning:
“When you forgive, you heal your own anger and hurt and are able to let love lead again. It’s like spring cleaning for your heart.”
– Marci Shimoff
When you hold onto others, past hurt, and people who have angered you, you are giving them YOUR power! You are allowing them to have a piece of you and you don’t even know it! It is only when you forgive them that you can move forward. It is only when you let go that you will begin to prosper. It is only when you are able to be truthful with yourself and others are able to be truthful with you that you can hold love in your heart. It is only when you don’t allow people to hurt you, that you can have abundance and live in it.
Cleanse your mind of all the thoughts, fears and demons that burden you from day to day. Cleanse your heart of hurt, trauma and hate. Cleanse your body of any parasites that are sucking the life out of you. Cleanse yourself! Believe and have unwavering faith that you are healed from your past! Love yourself, it’s the first step to finding true love.
Many of us move through life not knowing the simple pleasures of love. We think we know but then as time wears on and we move forward we find out that we were wrong. We attach ourselves to people who are no good for us and we know it! We let them suck the life out of us and we know it! We either have or develop low self esteem and allow people to do and say whatever they like to us.
Why? Why do you allow others to take your energy, love and prosperity and pass it off as their own? Do you love yourself? Okay….Okay….that should have been my first question!!
First things first…..Do you love yourself? Really think about that question because that is the most important question that you will ever hear as an adult. I’m not talking about being conceited or vain but I’m talking about having a healthy love for yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you don’t know what love is. If you don’t love yourself, you don’t know how to show someone to love you!
The things that you do for yourself, that person that you love or “say” you love should do that AND more. Love isn’t perfect but the person that you love should treat you like you are a diamond! Why? Because you are! You are unique! You are deserving of all the love in the world and should be treated as such.
So first things first…..Do you love yourself?
Women’s Standards for Men in Their Life ~~~
Standards (age 22):
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, romantic lover
Revised Standards (age 32):
1. Nice looking (prefer hair on his head)
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week
Re-revised Standards (age 42):
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This is Part II of my Dating Rules blog. If you missed the first one, scan through my blog and look for Dating Rules Part I. Part II is going to cover some signs that we all, not just women, should look for when dating.
We all like to make the comment “She/he just all of a sudden became crazy. I don’t know what happened!!” bzzzz WRONG!! They were already crazy!! You just didn’t bother to look past the cute face, skinny waist, nice lips, big ass, or swag. Don’t blame it on anyone else…..please!
Anyway, I have come up with a list of things that you (everybody) should look for….traits that someone may have that should make you want to RUN!!
If he doesn’t take care of the things that he wears, he doesn’t really care about his appearance. The first impression can make or break a situation and/or relationship. This is why it is important to always try to put your best foot forward at all times because you don’t where or when you will meet someone special.
These are only a few things to look out for when you decide to start looking for someone to date. Don’t continue to be a victim of these men and women who bring nothing but drama into your life!
This post will definitely be continued……
This weekend I had a trip planned for a small vacation in Atlanta…..never again on these terms!! I came here with the intention to relax, go out, have fun and enjoy myself….it didn’t quite happen that way lol…..
There happened to be a hair show going on this weekend in Atlanta so the majority of the hotels were booked and very packed. It was crazy!! I got here on Friday afternoon and it was a roller coaster ride the entire time.
I bought my cousin with me and ended up begging her to go on a lil “date” with me. Needless to say, I should have checked out and counted my loses after seeing how my “date” was acting. His behavior got worse and came to a crash and burn situation early this morning.
This situation has definitely opened my eyes and given me a reason to write down some things that all women should look for before starting a relationship. I don’t know if I was in real danger but the situation scared me enough to be more pre cautious.